Hold it or drop it?

This question is like a twin brother for Hamlet's "To be or not to be". It is a choice people make in their lives and this choice usually of great importance and your "to be" or your "not to be" will condition your further life one way or another. So, it is important to make right choice among those two answers. Sure, all of us are skillful and smart when talking about relations between other people, but for some mysterious reasons, every one of us becomes confused and helpless when it is about his or her own relations, relations that are of great importance for one.
In case if you have friends who had been in such a situation, you fir sure gave them some pieces of advice and those were loud and clear for you, and so you were astonished with the fact that your friend can't follow the advice. If you still wonder about such a helplessness of your friend it means that you has still never been in such situation. God bless you and protect you against getting in such situation, as once you will the helplessness of your friend will become understandable for you. Moreover, you will realize all the most delicate feelings he or she had, and it won't be a pleasure for you.
There are people who never know what to do with their relations, and there are those who deal with all the trouble at the very moment those appear. And such people of second type do it without any regret, though things are different in the day when they meet those they really fall in love with. All the inborn power and the wit of their mind go somewhere and things become terrible and it seems like there is no way to get those. And let's congratulate them in the world of love, when all the strength is gone and nothing left except confusion and desire to make things better.
Though, until they are not shocked with such a phenomenon as love, they are rather skillful at building relationships and there is a point in following some pieces of advice those people give you. In case if you have no such friends you have this web-site that will gather for you all the necessary pieces of advice you will need in case if you are in trouble of forced tandem: the tandem when one does his or her best in order to save relation and the other one... well, you know yourself.