Hold it if

After you've been thinking about what you want, about what you need and about if he or she is the one you've been looking for thing will become clearer. And now, when your mind is clear you can realize what you have to do – hold it or drop it. Let's talk about drop it later and now concentrate our attention on hold it, as it is more difficult than drop it.
First of all, in case if you came to conclusion that you have to hold this person and the relations you have, a great work should be done for this purpose. It is common that if a person faces a question about "hold it or drop it" there are some troubles people have in their relations.
Though, if no matter on those entire problems you realize that you feel dead without him or her – than hold it. You know, all of us sometimes face the misunderstanding and sometimes it looks like it will never be gone. Though, if you still feel thirsty for the person no matter that you mad with him or her like a devil – than hold it.
You have to make your choice in a favor of hold it if even despite the anger you have you can't imagine some other man or woman next to you. This relation has to be held in that case if both of you apply efforts and make certain steps forward each other. It means that both of you value those relations and so all the trouble will soon be gone.